This will scare some men away, and some might even see it as a challenge, but it will probably save you from problems in the long run. And before dating someone, consider starting a conversation in person or online to let them know your thoughts and feelings on the matter.

If your values are based on your religion, beliefs or culture it would be wise to seek men from within those particular groups or circles. Broaden your search for like-minded partners. If you continue to expect men generally to comply with your wish to wait, you are bound to be disappointed.Īs you’ve already discovered, there is a variety of attitudes to the idea of postponing sex until after marriage and some men will certainly misinterpret your standards as personal rejection. There are many people in the world who have the same values as you do about sex before marriage, but you will have to seek them out in places where you are most likely to find them. Is my behaviour normal? I wish I could meet a kind guy, who loves me no matter if we have sex or not, with no pressure for me to “perform ”. The response to my wanting to wait is always rejection. I’m sad and frustrated that I can’t meet a guy who will accept me. I showed my love in every possible way besides sex. They seemed to think I wasn’t interested in them (which was not the case – I really loved them). I explained to them that I found them really attractive and liked cuddling and kissing but neither of them w as satisfied with that.

I have had two short-term boyfriends, but the relationships never went further because I wanted to wait. I am a 25-year-old woman and have never had sex, as I always wanted to wait until marriage.

Tell me why i'm waiting for someone xxx